In an inspiring tale of friendship and adventure, Mercy Rego and her childhood friends prove it’s never too late to embrace life’s spontaneity.
Reconnecting After Six Decades
Mercy Rego (63) shares a comforting message: “Everything figures itself out.” How does she maintain such optimism?
Mercy and her friends, Radhika Krishnan, Ophelia Fernandes, Anjali Vichare, Usha Talawdekar, and Shachi Ugrankar, found their way back to each other after 60 years. Decades ago, like many of us, they were uncertain about their futures. Today, they look back without regret, celebrating the paths they’ve taken.
Their story began with a simple Facebook post. Mercy’s son suggested reconnecting with old schoolmates. Curious, she started searching for friends from her class of 1977. Surprisingly, she found some names and faces, reigniting bonds that time had nearly erased.
The First Adventure: Bengaluru Bound
The group decided to meet in Mumbai, but the excitement led them to plan their first trip to Kolar Mines in Bengaluru.
They spent four days in a farmhouse, catching up on lost years. The days were filled with singing, swimming, dancing, and enjoying each other’s company. Mercy recalls, “We didn’t get out of the farmhouse for four days. It was pure joy.”
Their success in Bengaluru set the stage for more adventures. The trip proved that their friendship was as strong as ever.
Planning the Malaysia Expedition
Encouraged by their first trip, the friends planned an international getaway to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, in 2023.
Highlights of the Malaysia Trip:
- Cable Car Rides: Soaring above the cityscape.
- Speed Boat Cruises: Thrilling rides on the water.
- Chocolate Factory Visits: Indulging in sweet treats.
The trip was a mix of excitement and nostalgia. Ophelia Fernandes laughs, “We thought our intestines would come out!” Yet, the memories they created were priceless.
Life Beyond Retirement
Mercy emphasizes the importance of staying active after retirement. “Don’t make the mistakes we made. Enjoy life,” she advises.
Retirement doesn’t mean slowing down. For Mercy, it was a chance to pursue her passion. After years as a homemaker, she became a teacher and eventually a principal. Now, she teaches life skills at a college in Mangaluru, inspiring others to live fully.
Her friends share similar sentiments. They believe that travel and new experiences enrich life, offering companionship and joy in their golden years.
Cherishing Childhood Bonds
The friends’ journey is a testament to enduring friendships. They cherish the memories from their school days, from playful antics to heartfelt conversations.
Mercy fondly remembers, “There was this girl May Jacinto in school who excelled at arts and crafts. I remember asking her to do my projects in exchange for helping her with her homework.”
These shared experiences laid the foundation for their lasting connection. Reconnecting was like reopening a cherished book, discovering new chapters in their lives.
Embracing Spontaneity and Freedom
Mercy’s tattoo symbolizes her free spirit. “The open cage signifies freedom,” she explains. It’s a reminder to live without regrets and embrace the present moment.
Her advice is simple yet profound: prioritize joy and spontaneity. “Money will come, houses will come, love will come, and everything will fall into place. But don’t lose your youth. Don’t forget to enjoy the present. You don’t know what tomorrow holds.”
The Group’s Dynamic
Each friend brings something unique to the group:
- Radhika Krishnan: Loves a good vada pav.
- Ophelia Fernandes: The life of the party.
- Anjali Vichare: Tops in science.
- Usha Talawdekar: A culinary enthusiast.
- Shachi Ugrankar: Keeps everyone laughing.
Their diverse personalities create a vibrant dynamic, making every trip memorable.
The Impact of Shared Adventures
Traveling together has strengthened their bond. They support each other through life’s ups and downs, proving that true friendship withstands the test of time.
Mercy concludes, “The current of life may have carried us in different directions, but we are glad to have reached the same shore.”
